How does it feel to be in a marriage without any love?
07.06.2025 16:44
This is the first problem in my household since 3 years of marriage, strangely enough because the wife loves her husband
He went to his counter and I still didn't go to work, I cleaned up the house to forget about last night's incident but I kept thinking about it, until finally I thought
And what's worse, he also wants to marry me because he doesn't feel good about his mother 🙈🙈 oh my, it's really suitable
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I even started chatting with him often, what time he'll be coming home, what he wants to eat, he's like a real wife, it's true 😅, he said that my behavior is getting weirder but I don't care, I'm happy because when I see him happy like that
That night I was serious with my husband, the point was asking him to try to open his heart to me, who knows maybe he can forget his ex, he said he can't forget his ex
A week later, the girlfriend asked to break up and my husband accepted it sincerely but couldn't forget her even though he had bought a ring 😠
I heard a joke from my husband's female friend, "Well, that's it, when you get married, don't think about me all the time, this girl is stupid," I thought it was just a joke, but when I saw my husband's face which was smiling a little stiffly, I felt awkward.
He finally started to get used to my attitude and was able to accept me, and he also said he loved me.
When we arrived at another place, he started chatting about standard things like what work we were doing or what we were busy with. Honestly, he was really easy to chat with, from being awkward at first to being really relaxed. He was awkward because he wasn't comfortable with the place.
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The guy she was having an affair with was arguably better than my husband, he had a car, a ninja motorbike and was incredibly handsome, while my husband looked more like a cake, 😆😆😆 It wasn't me who said that, it was him.
We've been married for almost 3 years and mothers are getting more and more nosy about children, afraid that their two children will "dry up" because they got married late, even though I'm only 3 years old and my husband is 33, I was told to check with the doctor and the results were that they were fertile, yes they are fertile but if they are not fertilized, how can they be 😅
While waiting for my husband to come home, I thought again why did I become like this? Am I in love with that idiot 😂
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Ah, it's so stupid, I like doing it, so just do it
I always think about my husband's story and I don't know why I feel like I can't accept my husband being treated like that, so I call my husband and ask him what he's doing or if he's eaten yet until my husband is surprised that he's suddenly so attentive.
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Until one night I woke up because I wanted to pee, and saw my mother praying at night and praying that I would soon find a partner, and honestly I just ignored it 😅😅 because I had no intention of getting married, but over time a feeling of guilt emerged because every night my mother woke up and kept praying for me.
My husband is also not a naughty or flirty person, he is diligent in worship and a hard worker in my opinion, although his brain is a bit stupid when he jokes, it's really funny. Sometimes I wonder why this person can't get a partner, even though as a man he is perfect and fits as an ideal husband
I chatted, called but no one replied. I was really afraid that he would be angry with me because I was the one who said that there was no love in our marriage. I cried so hard and just realized that this is how it feels to be rejected.
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After thinking about it, I finally agreed to be matched with the daughter of my mother's friend, but with the condition that if they weren't suitable, I wouldn't want to. My mother was happy to hear that and immediately called her friend.
Skip skip skip finally we agreed to get to know each other first and then meet again, we also ended up exchanging WA numbers but never chatted at all, only when we wanted to make an appointment then we chatted 😅
They arranged for me to meet somewhere so we could get to know each other. My mother gave me a meeting schedule complete with the person's characteristics, the meeting place and the time.
Oh my God, I feel like I'm flying, my love is reciprocated by him, but it's a lie
It's been a week but there's no change until finally an idea came to mind, what about sex 😂😂
Until one day we were at the mall and had just watched a movie, in the parking lot we met my husband's college friend, who was also a woman.
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I grumbled in my heart that I was just his formal wife, how could he possibly love him? The more he refused, the greater my fear.
My husband hasn't come out for half an hour, what is he doing? I followed him to the bathroom and asked him why he was in the bathroom for so long? He just said he had a stomachache, too much chili sauce, he said it was okay.
A girl that age who is not married is definitely being teased by her neighbors? Of course, but it's not that bad, I just asked and I answered just to pray for her.
The party was over and it was time for the wedding night. I wanted to remind him again that there would be no sex at our wedding, but he had already gone to sleep first.
Until the morning when I woke up, he was already beside me, I was happy because he was willing to share a bed again but it was still awkward..
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Skip skip skip the two of us often met and watched movies together like we were dating even though he didn't care about arranged marriages, but because I was with his mother, I just followed suit and I also considered it just looking for entertainment.
That was the first time I fell in love, and there was a huge fear of losing him and sometimes I was paranoid too, until one day I wanted to confess my love to him.
After taking a shower, my husband came into the room and apologized for making me worry, but I just smiled to myself.
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We introduced each other's partners and when I saw my husband's face I felt something was strange, he seemed to be in a hurry to talk while stuttering about how much he wanted to go home, and strangely his eyes were a little glassy.
He was actually annoyed with me and we joked around like a real husband and wife, pinching each other until his face was right in front of mine.
The next day I started serving my husband like a wife, from kissing his hands to washing his clothes, never mind that before 😅, but he remained unmoved and didn't seem to care at all.
After my child was 6 months old, I decided to resign from the office and the severance pay was quite large, some of it was for me and some of it I gave to my husband, he initially refused because it wasn't his money.
He said that the friend he met in the parking lot was his ex and until now he can't forget her even though she's already married.
And in the end he said, thank you for loving him and he is actually learning to love me for the past week 😍😍😍 gosh I'm so happy
"You're still with A (my husband), what does he have, a small cellphone counter, no car, even a regular motorbike won't be able to pay for your living expenses later" something like that but in the local language anyway
I confided in my best friend and he said I was weird, how could he not understand something like that, according to him it's normal for a wife to worry about her husband coming home late or wanting to do things with other women, that's proof of love.
When I heard sentences like that, I was also annoyed, my husband at that time could only hold back the pain and he said something like, "Yeah, I'll break up with you in a while, but it's just not the right time." Damn, men with qualities like this are not appreciated, they think those who own a car are always better.
We've been married for a long time and nothing has changed at all. My feelings for him have no love at all, and so does his. Even without children, we are happy but sometimes we feel guilty towards our parents.
She who is always cheerful but suddenly cries must have a really big problem that makes her cheerfulness disappear like that, in the morning I didn't dare ask because I was afraid of being offended, and for a few days the house was really quiet
When I got home, my husband went into the bathroom to take a shit, and I finished cleaning up and went to sleep.
It's been 6 months since we've known each other and we had to make a decision, he asked me how it would go and I answered "what do you think" he answered "I apologize first for being afraid of being offended" he had no intention of dating, let alone getting married but he didn't feel good about his mother, and I answered the same thing. No one was surprised, in fact we laughed like people were joking even though it was a serious problem 😆 He's also a person who likes to joke around
A week before the breakup, he went to his girlfriend's boarding house because she asked him to teach him something, I don't really understand. When he got to the yard of his girlfriend's room, he heard his girlfriend and her boarding house friend having a conversation that went something like this:
When he came out, I saw his eyes were red, like someone had been crying, I knew he must have a big problem, his eyes were red like that, I didn't feel comfortable asking.
After thinking about it for more than a week and finally meeting him again, I told him that I wanted to marry him but not because of love but because it just didn't feel right with my mother 😆 I was so angry
Their relationship was going well until one day he saw his girlfriend with another guy 😧 and he could only hold back the pain because he didn't want to lose his girlfriend because he was already deeply in love with her, so he just let it be.
He apologized if he hurt my feelings yesterday because he was really scared 😁😁 and the next night I tried to tease him by asking him to have sex and he agreed 😅 even though I was PMSing
I told my best friend that I've cooked everything for my husband, and he said I'm weird 😅 He said that I'm like someone who just got married even though it's been almost 3 years
Finally he wanted to talk about my feelings and wanted to try to open his heart to me, even a little bit 😁 I cried, touched and happy, and immediately hugged my husband
He said no, he was never angry with me, I was very relieved but still scared, why did you ignore me? I asked him
Even when we're together, we joke around a lot about the formality of our marriage so much that we don't feel awkward. You could say we're harmonious.
My husband is too good a person, he could become like that because he was disappointed, while I really love him and have no intention of disappointing him, until finally I decided to fight for my love.
I'm a girl who doesn't care about complicated matters, including finding a partner, and I don't really care. After all, I already have a steady income and am happy and never think about finding a partner. In fact, I've never been in a relationship or felt what it's like to fall in love.
I tried to seduce my husband at night before going to sleep, and he just laughed 😭 he said I was very aggressive
He started to talk about his arranged marriage with me and he actually had no intention of getting married, he wanted to be arranged because he felt guilty towards his mother. But the reason was the same 😩😩
For the past few days, my husband has become quieter and a bit strange, he often frowns and tends to lose focus when asked questions, until in the middle of the night I heard him crying, I thought to myself, why is this person crying in the middle of the night?
Finally, he wanted to tell me about his ex. He had been dating her for more than a year since his final semester of college and planned to marry her. He had also said that he was serious about his girlfriend but left everything to her.
Finally, we both agreed to think about it for a few days to find a solution.
I don't care if I want to give it to you, just accept my words 😅 My husband just agreed and used the money for business capital
Finally, on the day of the meeting, I got ready. I didn't have much hope because it was just for fun and half-heartedly, but when I saw my mother, I was really happy 😅 like someone who was getting married tomorrow.
Even in bed there is no pampering, we are more like friends who are playing in the room, there are no calls darling, instead we use LU GUE unless my family calls him bro 🙈
Well, that's the story of my marriage which was originally without love, it's like a soap opera actually, but that's the story.
Ok deal and we decided to get married as easily as that 😆😆 it's like a toy
Several days have passed since the incident but I feel like there is something bothering me. The condition of the house has also returned to normal and my husband smiles more often as if he has no burden. I am also happy but there is still something bothering me.
I love you, I really love you, and he said, what are you talking about, we're married, it's natural to love each other, right?
I was also surprised to hear that, it turns out he had such deep love for his ex, so I asked him how could that be possible?
Finally I met my future husband and the first impression was just ordinary 😆😆😆 I don't really care about his physical appearance, he's a bit big, 173 cm tall, brown skin, an ordinary face, handsome, not too ugly 😅😅😅🙏🙏 well, the point is he wasn't disappointing.
Until finally I had the courage to ask when I was in my room about to sleep, what is it that makes you cry every night?
Every day I fall more and more in love with him and he's just like usual but I don't care, so this is what it's like to fall in love 😁
Until one day my husband didn't reply to my WA message even though I often sent him a phone call but he didn't pick up, and when he came home I snapped at him until he was surprised, I asked him in a sulky tone and he said, What's wrong with you? I'm worried about you I said that, he said it right
I'm curious about his love story because honestly, I never asked him whether he had ever dated or not or asked why he didn't have a girlfriend at the age of 33. At first, he didn't want to tell me because he wanted to forget it, but I told him that keeping it to himself and forgetting it are different.
Likewise, he asked a lot of questions about my work and in the end it all made sense.
He is a humorous person, good at making silly jokes and we have the same hobby, which is watching movies and traveling 😍😍😍 From there, I felt that there was a match but still not love.
PMS is over and without further ado we fight that night, OMG after 3 years of marriage I just got rid of my status
He agreed to the conditions and he also did not mind providing for her and refused sex without love.
Chatting about my work in the office as a staff and him who opened a credit counter business while selling online, most girls would probably look down on his work but I was curious and asked him a lot of questions.
That was the first time I saw my husband sad and crying, I found out he had deep mental problems too, and I don't know why I felt sorry for him.
The first time we met, he was really awkward but to be honest, his smile was quite sweet, we were both awkward and didn't know what to say until he finally started the conversation "how are you?" 😅😅 gosh, in my heart I asked him a very standard question, and what's worse, I didn't know what to talk about, I should have just chatted via WA first before telling him.
I went straight into my room while frowning in my heart, why am I like this? I went straight to sleep.
Finally, I just took my tears to sleep, and when I woke up at dawn, my husband was already sleeping beside me.
I just kept quiet when he said that, then went into my room and cried all day and in the end he just ran away and I don't know where.
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My husband, who intended to go to his boarding house, still went into his boarding house smiling as if nothing had happened.
A year into our marriage, my mother-in-law and my mother asked if it had been filled yet, but it didn't happen right away 😆😆😆, my husband always made excuses that he had given it to me in a month and I just grinned when I heard that.
I said in a slightly high tone, you're not that you can't but you don't want to, you're hurting yourself you know. He immediately left but I held his hand and told him to sit down, listen to what I said first I said
Ok, this is the story, I was matched with my mother's friend's son, a guy who was just ordinary in my opinion and he was also not married at the age of 33, mature but not married. At first I didn't want to but my mother kept persuading me so that I would have a companion and be happy, even though I was very happy living single
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I also put forward a condition, that when we are married we will live normally like husband and wife, sleeping in the same bed but no sex and carrying out our respective duties according to our respective positions.
He knew the girl was cheating on him and just kept quiet, what are you a guy, I said, I wanted to cry for someone like that, he said I wouldn't understand because I've never loved anyone, that's right.
He still thinks about his ex and he's afraid of being disappointed like before.
He kissed my forehead and I kissed his lips back 🙈 gosh that was my first kiss, I blushed and he hugged me instead
I finally found out the reason my husband got married was just to escape so he could forget about his ex. I'm not offended, but it's also sad to see someone disappointed to that extent.
Well, it's just a formality, why should I think like that, but day by day I'm getting more and more afraid of what my husband will do?
He was just joking when he said that and he thought I was joking too, but I explained to him that if I really love him, I don't want to lose him, he kept quiet and chose to leave the house without knowing where.
He said he was afraid of hurting me, 😧 I was shocked to hear him say that, why?
When I got home, my mother and father interrogated me, what did they say? I just answered normally 😆😆😆 They immediately gave up, when I said we would meet again later because we wanted to get to know each other first, they were so excited, oh my gosh, mom isn't sure what I said, but she really hoped it would happen
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We live a normal household life, take a house loan, come home from work together, sometimes he stays up late and I never ask him if he wants to cheat, I don't care 😆😆😆 But honestly he really respects marriage, even though it's not based on love, he carries out all his obligations as a husband except sex, oh yeah he's also good at cooking and his cooking is the best, my favorite is meatball soup and stir-fried water spinach made by him
When this story was written, my children were already 10 months old and I was staying up late breastfeeding them while my husband was snoring in front of the TV 😅
After that, we were silent for a week, even my husband slept in the next room and I didn't go to work for 3 days because I was thinking about my husband.
😠😠 ok never mind, it's called struggling, there will definitely be obstacles, I tried again and he laughed again, every time I came home I hugged him and he started to get used to it and returned my hugs 🙈🙈
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Until the food was finished, we didn't chat at all until finally he asked me to go somewhere else, okay, I'll do it because I'm not comfortable in crowded places.
We often spend time together intensely in the room and I took time off for my honeymoon 😁 even though I was just at home reproducing
Even at home, I feel anxious when my husband comes home late, afraid that he will seek an outlet with another woman and forget that he has a wife.
My husband came home early and that night we were in the room watching a movie on TV, joking here and there, I was so happy that I told him
3 months later we got married in a normal ceremony like a married couple, seeing my mother so happy made me feel emotional and happy, oh this is what marriage is like, my husband was like someone who was carried away by the atmosphere of the ceremony, even though you could say we were just pretending.
In the end I dared to open a conversation and asked if he was angry with me?