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What is the happy reality of our generation?

11.06.2025 06:44

What is the happy reality of our generation?

Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.

Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.

Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.

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> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.

Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.

The Airports have gotten better and nicer.

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Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)

As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.

Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.

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1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)

Pluses:

There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.

Can anyone show a photo with a penis in their anus?

Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.

The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.

On a personal level.

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Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.

The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.

Redefined

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We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.

Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.

I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.

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South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.

> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.

Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)

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Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)

IIT’s had just been established.

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2014- Present

I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.

>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.

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It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.

Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.

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Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.

The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.

Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.

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People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).

Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.

Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.

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> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.

Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.

2014- Present ( Modi).

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Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.

> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?

> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.

Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.

Bank Jobs were highly sought after.

South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.

I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.

5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.

There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.

And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.

1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)

It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.

> India’s population was around 365 million.

Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.

Growing up in this decade.

Education has gotten so much more expensive.

Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.

Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.

The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.

Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.

Import Substitution was the mantra.

> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.

Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).

I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.

Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;

Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.

There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.

Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.

There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.

1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)

Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.

Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.

> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.

Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.